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How much should you spend on a gift?

Pick who it's for and the occasion, and get a typical spending range - based on common US gift-giving etiquette. A guide to help you feel confident, never a rule.

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$35

Most people spend $20$60 on a birthday gift for a friend.

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$10typical $35$85

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Typical gift spending, at a glance

Typical amounts by occasion and how close you are. Tap an occasion to browse ideas. A dash means a gift isn't normally expected - a card or small token is plenty.

OccasionCoworkerFriendClose friendImmediate family
Birthday$10$30$20$60$30$85$40$120
Wedding$40$90$75$175$105$245$150$350
Bridal shower$25$75$35$105$50$150
Anniversary$30$90$40$125$60$180
Engagement party$25$100$35$140$50$200
Graduation$10$40$20$75$30$105$40$150
New baby / baby shower$15$45$30$85$40$120$60$170
Housewarming$10$30$20$60$30$85$40$120
Retirement$25$80$25$80$25$80$25$80
Get well / sympathy$15$55$15$55$15$55$15$55
Dinner party (host gift)$15$40$15$40$15$40$15$40
Valentine's Day
Just because / thank you$5$20$10$40$15$55$20$80

Typical US ranges from common gift-giving etiquette and consumer surveys. A guide, not a rule - and never a minimum.

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It depends on two things: the occasion and how close you are to the person. As a rough guide, a coworker's birthday runs $15-25, a close friend's $35-60, a wedding for a friend $75-175, and a new-baby gift $30-85. Use the calculator above for your exact combination - it gives a typical range, not a rule.

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