Alex and Ani Sweet 16 Charm Bangle (Shiny Silver, Expandable)
An expandable wire bangle with a 'sweet 16' charm in Alex and Ani's shiny silver finish - a small keepsake for the birthday that stacks with her other bangles.
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Typical amounts by occasion and how close you are. Tap an occasion to browse ideas. A dash means a gift isn't normally expected - a card or small token is plenty.
| Occasion | Coworker | Friend | Close friend | Immediate family |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Birthday | $10โ$30 | $20โ$60 | $30โ$85 | $40โ$120 |
| Wedding | $40โ$90 | $75โ$175 | $105โ$245 | $150โ$350 |
| Bridal shower | โ | $25โ$75 | $35โ$105 | $50โ$150 |
| Anniversary | โ | $30โ$90 | $40โ$125 | $60โ$180 |
| Engagement party | โ | $25โ$100 | $35โ$140 | $50โ$200 |
| Graduation | $10โ$40 | $20โ$75 | $30โ$105 | $40โ$150 |
| New baby / baby shower | $15โ$45 | $30โ$85 | $40โ$120 | $60โ$170 |
| Housewarming | $10โ$30 | $20โ$60 | $30โ$85 | $40โ$120 |
| Retirement | $25โ$80 | $25โ$80 | $25โ$80 | $25โ$80 |
| Get well / sympathy | $15โ$55 | $15โ$55 | $15โ$55 | $15โ$55 |
| Dinner party (host gift) | $15โ$40 | $15โ$40 | $15โ$40 | $15โ$40 |
| Just because / thank you | $5โ$20 | $10โ$40 | $15โ$55 | $20โ$80 |
Typical US ranges from common gift-giving etiquette and consumer surveys. A guide, not a rule - and never a minimum.
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It depends on two things: the occasion and how close you are to the person. As a rough guide, a coworker's birthday runs $15-25, a close friend's $35-60, a wedding for a friend $75-175, and a new-baby gift $30-85. Use the calculator above for your exact combination - it gives a typical range, not a rule.
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